Over the holiday break Violet came down with her first ear infection. It’s been a long time since anyone in the family has had one of these (thankfully) and I had to rely on my seemingly ancient experience to figure out what was going on! I remember with Cameron’s first ear infection I asked his pediatrician how I could tell (or at least get a good idea) that his cold had taken a turn for the worse and become an infection. Below is her advice, along with a few new tidbits that I pick up from Violet’s pediatrician.
A cold virus usually runs its course over 7-10 days. Try to note when your little one gets ill (I happened to call Violet’s pediatrician when she first got ill so I could see in my phone history when I made the call). If your child has been sick longer than that, and maybe even seemed to be getting better but then takes a turn for the worse, you might be looking at an ear infection.
If your child has a fever, and they have had that long lingering cold then it’s not looking so good! I know with Cameron I was nervous about taking his temperature rectally… it just seemed like it would be uncomfortable for him. But I’ve gotten over my squeamishness with Violet and honestly, it doesn’t seem to bother her at all. This will give you the most accurate temperature reading.
At this point I’d call your pediatrician and tell them what signs you’ve seen – they will ask you about the fever, so be sure you get that reading! It’s pretty likely they will have you come in for a sick visit.
Your little one might be in a lot of pain from the possible infection, and is certainly uncomfortable from the fever. I tend to give my little ones Advil (ibuprofen) rather than Tylenol (acetaminophen) because it lasts longer (6-8 hours vs 4 hours). This is especially key in the night because it will hopefully help everyone get more rest.
Violet had a pretty rough time with this infection – her fever was up to 104 for a few evenings. It took about 4 days on the antibiotics to get her back to herself – eating, drinking, and smiling again. There was a time that we had to force feed her pedialyte because she wasn’t having any wet diapers. The pediatrician suggested buying pedialyte frozen pops (in the baby isle) and cutting them into small chunks so Violet could feed herself the pieces, or just try sucking on the pop. This didn’t really work for her – but maybe it will for you. In theory it would be a lot more pleasant than squirting pedialyte into her mouth every 10 minutes!
Finally she recovered – we’ve got 2 days left on her 10 day antibiotic course (always be sure to complete the antibiotic course even if your child seems all better) and then we will head back to the pediatrician for an all-clear on her ears.
If your little one comes down with an ear infection – just get them to the doctor quickly, and give them as much TLC as you can while they are recovering. It seems like a long road, but they will get there! Good luck!














